Baby Death Poem

My wife and I had our beautiful baby girl Lexi on 2ND September 2011, we were told something was wrong with her but no one was sure exactly what. That night we were told that she would be dead within 15 minutes. Lexi had other plans and fought hard for 19 days. My wife and I wanted to share her strength with the world and we often updated our friends and wider community through facebook, this helped us to cope better with Lexi's illness and has helped us feel supported in her death.

The Strength You Gave Me

They tell me it's amazing how I've stayed so strong,
but they don't see how I cry when I hear your song,
they see the smile on my face but miss the hurt in my eye,
I would rather seem rude than let them see me cry,
I put on this front as I don't want the world to see,
the pain and sorrow so deep inside me.

I don't act this way cause I'm ashamed to feel the way I do,
I act this way in honour of you,
because although I hurt right now and my heart is broken,
I can't help but feel pride and love when your name is spoken,
my strength comes from the love you gave to me,
and it's that strength I want the world to see.

I will always love and miss you Lexi,
that I will never hide,
and when people ask me about my daughter Lexi,
they will always see my pride,
you were so precious and your memory will always live on,
I'll never be sad that I had you only that your gone.

My tears are not a sign of my weakness,
they are a sign of the love I have inside,
they will always fall down my cheeks,
when I think of you with pride,
they say it takes a real man to admit when he is sad,
but how can I be sad when I look at the daughter that I had,
I will always have the memories of my little girl,
and you will always be my world,
Lexi always remember you gave me this strength and that,
you will always be your daddies little girl!!!

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Published: Oct 2011

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  • I sort of know how you feel, people feel the same way.. I lost my son 2nd of June 2011.. he passed away 17 minutes after me having him..
    It is really hard to move on for me though but this poem has gave me strength:) <3 R.I.P lexi
    && R.I.P my little boy Corey-Taylor <3

    Natalie,Shirebrook Submitted Dec 2011
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  • Although this has never happened to me, I liked it so much I used it in my English coursework.

    Seb, London Submitted Apr 2012
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  • Hi guys thank you so much for your messages, Natalie I hope you are finding some comfort and Seb what did you do the piece of work on and thank you? Please feel free to add Lexi's Facebook page to see what we are doing for the hospice who looked after her- Lexi Keech Charles-Kerr

    Danny Kerr, Hemel Submitted 7/10/2012
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  • I love this poem. I act the very same way. I was only 19 weeks pregnant and I had my baby boy on Aug. 2, 2011. He lived for only twenty minutes, so I kind of know the feeling too. I'm glad I came along this poem. It is still hard for me especially with his birth date coming up. Thank you for sharing it with us.

    RIP-MY BABY R.J, PRINCESS LEXI,
    & PRINCE COREY-TAYLOR

    Lucy, Texas Submitted 7/14/2012
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  • We lost Amaya 22 days after she was born. Thank you for sharing your poem, it is so beautiful.

    Kelly Farough, Tucson Az Submitted 8/8/2012
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  • Hello there,
    I was touched by your poem but even more so due to the timing and name of your little angel for I have a friend who lives in Australia, who had her first child, a girl, named Lexi born on the 6th of September and died the same day - and to really hit home, my youngest sister and my brother in-law had their first child on the 8th of September, which they named him Alexius, and he too died 30 mins after he was born so this is just mind blowing - 3 little angels in heaven with the same names - special....I admire the strength and honesty of all parents involved and acknowledge the grief that you all must go in and out of with everyday being different - much respect and love to you all.

    Mel, NZ Submitted 11/28/2012
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  • I have just come across this poem today on my daughters 9th birthday. She passed away at 4 days old. I was 20 and I got to hold her once and that was as she passed away. I just wanted you to thank you for your beautiful words

    I struggle every year but we all have to remember something that my daughters grandma said and its beautiful, we asked people to remember her this way:
    Our babies are like shooting stars, something brief but beautiful that bring hope and light to our lives if only for a small time
    xxxxx

    Laura-Jane Submitted 12/18/2012
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