Your Valentine is your lover. Valentines Day is set aside to celebrate love. There's love and romance in the air. Everywhere you go there's chocolate and candy. If you don't have someone to share your love with, this may be a day to stay in bed. Or it may be the day to make that call that you have been thinking about for a long time. If you're miserable about not being in relationship, get out of bed, pick up the phone, and do something about it.