Flower That Bloomed In The Dead Of Winter Died Of Loneliness

• by Themba Masemola
• 4 years ago

I am 26 and have been in a relationship with a 22 year old girl. She has a daughter, but I am not the biological father. After I found out that the daughter is not mine, I forgave her and we continued happily, but then she started cheating every now and then, and I always find out. She started staying on campus and she was sleeping with another guy there many times. She cheated more than 6 times now, but I have been trying to dump her and I always find myself with her again, so anyone who has some tips please help.

• by Solomon, Ghana
• 6 years ago

I realized my fiancee was cheating with her coworker but anytime I would ask her she would get angry and accuse me of not trusting her her, there was a time she asked permission from me to go out on a show with this same guy, so I granted it for her and secretly bought a ticket for myself and a friend so that I could see for myself if what people told me was true.... And I couldn't believe my very eyes, such a romance they were having!! So I didn't show myself but waited till the next day which was Sunday, I didn't want to have her confused since she's the church secretary, so I told her right after church that I wanted to see her and it was an emergency, so I met her that night and gave her the tickets and told her I was there... But now as I'm typing I'm totally lost in grief,pain and anger!! Though she's been here to apologize and even tried to include her family... They've been having sex for the past week. Only what consoles me is this place, it makes me feel I'm not alone.

• by Camryn Edwards Michelle
• 6 years ago

I go to bed every night, just thinking of his smile. I stay awake until 11:11 if it means I can wish for you but then I saw you, with her, acting like I was the last person you'd ever notice and then it hit me. I never had the chance of a relationship with you because your you and I'm me. Everytime someone told me to let him go my love became stronger and stronger and sometimes people can't take the pain of love and I couldnt control it. People say I went mad and others don't know what to think but I know it's because of what I saw, what I saw you do, with her and not me. I now understand what love is, it's a disease that can be passed on and can be cured and destroyed. My love was destroyed, my love was destroyed by the one I loved.

• by Ashley Crooks
• 7 years ago

I once fell in love with a guy that I thought loved me back. It turns out he just wanted a little more than I was giving him. He told me that he couldn't see me anymore, It turned out that he was just seeing another girl. I hated him for what he did to me, He didn't care how I felt... because the next day he came up to me and told me not to talk about him or my feelings of how he hurt me. I cried for the fact that I was so angry. I was so mad that I was shaking, my teacher tried to get me calmed down, he told me that it looked like I was having a seizure. I went home everyday so upset that he did that to me. None should ever get you that far, none should ever be able to knock down your walls that you put up unless you honestly trust them and you know that they won't hurt you just to get you upset. He knew me better than anyone knows me, even my parents don't know as well as he did. He knew what was wrong before I did. He would ask me what's wrong I would say nothing and he would say it was a lie. I thought for months that none liked me. Then I started talking to one of my exes, and I just fell in love again with him. We are together now and I couldn't be happier! So all those girls and guys that think you'll never find anyone else except that one guy or girl, think again because there is always someone out there who loves you and you just may not know it! Who knows they may be right in your face.