Adoption Poem

My Birth Mom

Sometimes a mother must make the hardest decision of all and in this she shows her greatest love and selflessness.

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Hello Donetta my name is Sarah and I want to first say I am so happy you've been reunited with your babies! I just wanted to take a moment to tell you I commend you for the difficult decision...

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© Emily E. Adkisson

February 2006

My Birth Mom

Loving and gracious the
Women I've never met.
She made a difficult decision and
She will debate that decision for the
Rest of her life.
It was something she knew she had to do
She did it with
A Mother's Love.

She thinks about me everyday
Every birthday, Every Mothers Day
Hurt will always be there.
I would not be the person
I am today without
A Mother's Love.

I can never thank her enough
For all the pain
She must go through
To give me a wonderful life
She had to show the biggest amount of
A Mother's Love.

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  • by Donetta Rocz
  • 8 months ago

My story is rather unusual as not only did I give two children up for adoption but also lost a third one in a divorce. Over 30 years ago, I made the heart wrenching decision to give up my son and daughter for adoption. I was a single unwed mother who was struggling to support to children under the age of 3. I know I hear a lot of people say I would never do that. I commend those people. But, at the time I wasn't thinking about myself but, of my children and what was best for them. The day I signed those papers it felt as though someone had ripped my heart out, and yet I knew I had done the right thing. My youngest was taken from me by her father under false pretenses. I had no witness on my side to help so I lost her too. For many years I suffered with the knowledge of knowing I would not see my children grow up. Then, in the course of 9 years God has reunited me with all three of my kids!

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  • by Sarah Vaughn, Tampa Fl
  • 4 weeks ago

Hello Donetta my name is Sarah and I want to first say I am so happy you've been reunited with your babies! I just wanted to take a moment to tell you I commend you for the difficult decision you had to make and I know just how much love it takes to make this decision for the well being of your babies. In reading this poem you wrote I found much healing in the words and I want to thank you. I just signed surrenders for my son just 5 days ago when he was born. Although our situations and lives are very different from one another they are much the same and I also lost custody of my other son a year ago who is 7 thru a very ugly divorce and had already lost everything including my whole family and all friends thru the battle of the divorce and now just had to place my newborn son with a family. I hope you know your not alone with what you go thru everyday I know it cuz I will have to relive my decision everyday for the rest of my life, you don't forget for a second and I often feel very alone. If I can be here for you or if you want someone to talk to please let me know. Your poem has helped me and touched my heart!

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  • by Mary Robinson
  • 1 year ago

Choosing to give my child up for adoption was the worst thing I ever did to myself... however it was the best thing I ever did for my daughter.

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  • by Ashleigh, NC
  • 1 year ago

I am adopted and this poem is great. If I could write a poem with my emotions regarding my adoption it would be like this. My birth mother wrote me a poem and I keep it with me all the time and read it every night. I will always have a spot in my heart for my birth mother.

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  • by Ashley Garrett, Huntsville Arkansas
  • 2 years ago

I went to foster care when I was four. I had one brother that I know of him and I got separated when I was 5 then I got adopted when I was six. Not a day passes that I don't think about my mother, father and my brother ... I always think to myself do I have any more brothers or sisters? What's my mom like? What is my dad like?

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  • by Bella, NZ
  • 2 years ago

I'm 19 and have just got to know my birth mother the last 3 years. Couple of months ago I gave her a poem with unanswered questions hoping she'll open up to me about my adoption. We're both the shy type, unable to have a descent conversation, or even look each other in the eye. But I'm grateful she had the courage to tell me everything I wanted to know and the sacrifice she had to make for me. How she's always loved me. It's all a daughter wants to hear.

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  • by Camilla, London
  • 3 years ago

I lost my precious son Timothy. He was with me and social services got involved, he was put into foster care and then he was adopted this was painful, felt like a knife was been put in my heart. I felt so much pain the loss was great. By God's grace I have met up with my son I know there is a long road ahead but God is the restorer of all things that are lost. I love My son so much.

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  • by Myriah
  • 5 years ago

I loved reading this poem. I had a daughter at fifteen and felt that I needed to give her the best life possible and I knew that I couldn't so I did an open adoption. There is not a day that goes by where I don't think of her, I just hope she knows that I did it out of love. Reading this poem makes me think that she will understand that I did it out of love for her. Keep writing :)

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