Poems by Judy

We can't begin to tell you
Just how loved you are
We can't believe how time has flown
And how you've come so far

Forgive us when we stop and stare
And tears fall from our eyes
Time flew by so quickly
Sure took us by surprise

We asked you to stay little
To always be our baby
You said, "I'll try to if I can,
but I'll have to grow up...maybe."

Now here you stand before us
A respectful, honest man
Strong-willed and determined
Who always says, "I can"

We flip though all your notes and cards
And pictures that you drew
Recall your quips and humor
'Unique', dear son, that's you!

There are no doubts within our minds
That you'll indeed succeed
Your future holds so much in store
But 'that smile' is all you need

You've always been so gentle,
So loving, kind and giving
Having you as our son
Is another term for 'living'

No matter where life leads you
No matter what you do
We'll always be your biggest fans
And we'll be here for you.

Memories flash before us
As we stop and think of you
If we could turn back the hands of time
That's the first thing we would do

We'd take ourselves back to the day
We first laid eyes on you
Your mouth (of course) wide open
Your eyes - so big and blue

It was at that very moment
As you lay there - oh so small
We knew within an instant
We were in for one long haul

Our instincts were right on the mark
You've kept us on the go
Always such a busy child
With a charismatic glow

A fanatic - full of questions
Inquisitive, keen and daring
Fearless, kind, and loving
So sensitive and caring

Willful and determined
You've marched to your own beat
True to your convictions
In victory or defeat

You're confident, devoted
You're handsome, dignified
You're a strapping, strong, tall leader
You've filled our hearts with pride

How we miss your tiny footsteps
Dancing wildly on the floor
Oh, how we miss our little boy
More than we ever have before

Greatness lies within you
In time, sweet son, you'll see
And if you ever need us
You know that there we'll be

Just keep on walking,
A small voice said.
Don't dare look back.
Look straight ahead.

Yes, so many things
Have changed.
Think they'd stay
As you arranged?

Be strong and brave.
Calm your fears.
Keep that chin up.
Dry your tears.

Yes, love hurt
And broke your heart.
Keep your head
And heart apart.

Don't cry over
What you have had.
At least you had it.
Don't be sad.

This will be tough,
But time will heal.
Perhaps a new life
Will then reveal.

You are not new
To this whole game.
You gave your best.
You're not to blame.

The hardest thing
There is to do
Is love someone
Who does not love you.

So is it worth it?
What's to gain
When you love someone
Who brings you pain?

Just walk away
And stand up tall.
Count your blessings,
One and all!

Look deeply in my eyes, my son
And listen to my voice
Please don't be a hostage
And know you have a choice
Can't you see you're better off
Without chains around your feet?
Don't you see how she delights
In your anguish and defeat?
Can you ever love someone
Who you can never trust?
These things, please ask yourself
This truly is a must
Do you like being deserted
Just when you least expect?
Has she taken all your pride away?
Have you lost your self-respect?
Do you like being cheated on
Mistreated and ignored
By someone who deceived you
That someone you adored?
Please listen to me carefully
Turn your back and run!
True love is nearer than you think
Believe me...my dear son.

When I heard that you had left us
I was simply blown away
How could that be possible?
We were laughing yesterday.

Your dry wit and your humor
Your grin and devilish smile
No one knew what you'd do next
You had one unique style!

Oh, how I'd anticipate you
Clocking in on second shift
How I waited for your quips
You had a truly special gift.

Always there for everyone
So dependable, sincere
Kind, gentle, and caring
Felt good to have you near.

So, my dear departed friend
I'll think of you each day
Peace and rest and comfort
I hope you've found today.

Your last words to me
Will help my tears to dry
You punched my arm and said,
"Hey...see ya, love ya, bye!"