Life Lesson Poems

Life Lesson Poems

Poems about Life Lessons

It has been said that life is the most patient teacher. You will be presented with the same experience over and over until you learn the best way to deal with the situation. This is not because life is cruel. Rather, it is because things have a way of coming back to haunt us when we don't deal with them. One form of intelligence is the ability to learn from mistakes. When you are presented with a painful experience, take the time to think about how you can avoid it in the future. This is an example of a lesson learned.

83 Poems about Lessons Learned from Mistakes

  1. 1. Changing The Past

    • By Donna
    •  Published by Family Friend Poems July 2011

    What inspired me to write this poem was my brother. He was going through some bad stuff, but it was fixable. It wasn't as bad as what a lot of people go through in this world. Actually, he selfishly brought it on himself. I tried to talk to him as much as I could, but he wouldn't listen. He refused to let it go. He just kept holding onto it. When I couldn't get through to him, I wrote this poem because I needed to write my feelings down, and this is what came out. Hopefully you enjoy it.

    Poem About Letting Go Of The Past

    The past is the past for a reason.
    That is where it is supposed to stay,
    But some cannot let it go.
    In their heads it eats away

    Until all their focus becomes
    The person they used to be,
    The mistakes they made in their life.
    Oh, if only they could see

    That you cannot change what happened,
    No matter how hard you try,
    No matter how much you think about it,
    No matter how much you cry.

    What happens in your lifetime
    Happens for reasons unknown,
    So you have to let the cards unfold.
    Let your story be shown.

    Don't get wrapped up in the negative.
    Be happy with what you have been given.
    Live for today not tomorrow.
    Get up, get out, and start living,

    Because the past is the past for a reason.
    It's been, and now it is gone,
    So stop trying to think of ways to fix it.
    It's done, it's unchangeable; move on.

    Poem About Letting Go Of The Past, Changing The Past

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  3. 2. Be Proud Of Who You Are

    • By S Raine
    •  Published by Family Friend Poems November 2010

    I try to instill in my daughters that we all are unique, so find yourself and be proud of who you are.

    I Am Unique

    I come with no wrapping or pretty pink bows.
    I am who I am, from my head to my toes.
    I tend to get loud when speaking my mind.
    Even a little crazy some of the time.
    I'm not a size 5 and don't care to be.
    You can be you and I can be me.
    I try to stay strong when pain knocks me down.
    And the times that I cry are when no one's around.
    To error is human or so that's what they say.
    Well, tell me who's perfect anyway.

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  5. 3. I Still Matter

    I never thought I would, but since I turned 60, I have been struggling with growing old and all the emotions that entails.

    Dealing With Growing Old


    My looks are nothing special,
    My face reveals my age,
    My body shows some wear and tear,
    And my energy's not the same.

    Too often my memory fails me,
    And I lose things all the time.
    One minute I know what I plan to do,
    And the next it may just slip my mind.

    I try hard to avoid my mirror.
    There are things I would rather not see,
    And even those times when I just catch a glimpse,
    I can no longer recognize me.

    The things I used to do with ease
    Can now cause aches and pains,
    And the quality of the things I do
    Will never be quite the same.

    I always compare my older self
    To those younger versions of me,
    And I know I'm wasting too much time
    Missing who I used to be.

    But the thing that really makes me sad
    Is despite what people see,
    Underneath my tattered, worn out shell,
    I'm still the same old me.

    My heart can still feel endless love,
    And at times it still can ache.
    My heart can fill with so much joy,
    And then it can suddenly break.

    My soul can still feel sympathy
    And longs for forgiveness and peace,
    And there are times its light shines boldly through,
    And times when it longs for release.

    It's true, maybe now that I'm older,
    Feeling lonely may be status quo,
    But it also has made me more willing
    To forgive and let past conflicts go.

    So maybe to some I look ugly and old,
    A person who barely exists.
    I'm still quite aware of the beauty inside,
    And my value should not be dismissed.

    So although not as strong and no beauty, it's true,
    I'm still here and want so much to live,
    And I know that there's no one in this world quite like me,
    And no one who has more to give.

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  6. 4. Family Circle

    • By Melissa G. Nicks
    •  Published by Family Friend Poems February 2006

    This poem is about the circle of life and the bittersweet realization of how time and life pass by so quickly.

    Cycle Of Life Poem

    When I am born, you are here
    In your eye, I see a tear
    Time flies and already I'm two
    "Look, Daddy, I can tie my shoe!"

    Before you know it, I'm five
    Every day, you thank God I'm alive
    Pretty soon, I turn eight
    You tell me I'm never allowed to date

    I'm already twelve in my preteen years
    Which means you'll help me with all my new fears
    Now fourteen with my permit to drive
    Waiting to hit the big one-five

    Too early comes sixteen, with my license now
    It went by too fast, you just ask how

    You want to meet my boyfriend when I'm eighteen
    I pray to God that you're not too mean
    The same guy two years later asks for my hand
    I'm relieved when you say, that's just grand

    About a year later, you walk me down the aisle
    Through all the tears, you bare a smile
    Three years later, you're gonna be a grandfather
    You show love and pride for your new granddaughter

    Another year down the road
    Mom dies, oh the many tears that flowed
    You're not doing so well without her
    Less than a year later, you forgot all about her

    Alzheimer's sets in and it scares me so
    Not long after, you decide to go
    Now I'm regretting not saying goodbye
    Every time I think about it, I start to cry

    The cycle has begun again
    It has started over with little Megan
    The other day, she turned two
    And said, "Look, daddy, I can tie my shoe!"

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  7. 5. Perceptions

    Took a me a while, but after misjudging people and being misjudged myself a number of times, I've learned to be careful jumping to conclusions about others.

    Jumping To Conclusions About People

    First impressions can be strong
    About those we see around.
    Yet how often are they wrong?
    That is the truth I've found.

    Not all who cry are weak.
    Not everyone who looks can see.
    Not all who are quiet are meek.
    Not all who nod agree.

    Not all who snarl are cruel.
    Not everyone generous is just.
    Not everyone clumsy is a fool.
    Not all who wander are lost.

    We never know people's character.
    In just a single instance.
    We never know who people are
    By judging from a distance.

    But whether we like it or not,
    We'll always be around people.
    Is it better to know a few people a lot
    Or a lot of people a little?

    I'd rather know a few people a lot
    Than a lot of people a little.

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  8. 6. Good Timber

    Douglas Malloch (1877-1938), known as the "Lumbermen's Poet," compares good men to good timber in this famous metaphorical poem. The message of this poem is that people, like trees, grow and reach their true potential by overcoming adversity. It is only through struggles, like a tree fighting through forest growth to reach the sun, that we grow and discover our true potential. Malloch lived in Michigan where he grew up amongst logging camps and lumber yards. He wrote his first published poem when he was still a boy; it was published in the Detroit News.

    The tree that never had to fight
    For sun and sky and air and light,
    But stood out in the open plain
    And always got its share of rain,
    Never became a forest king
    But lived and died a scrubby thing.

    The man who never had to toil
    To gain and farm his patch of soil,
    Who never had to win his share
    Of sun and sky and light and air,
    Never became a manly man
    But lived and died as he began.

    Good timber does not grow with ease,
    The stronger wind, the stronger trees,
    The further sky, the greater length,
    The more the storm, the more the strength.
    By sun and cold, by rain and snow,
    In trees and men good timbers grow.

    Where thickest lies the forest growth
    We find the patriarchs of both.
    And they hold counsel with the stars
    Whose broken branches show the scars
    Of many winds and much of strife.
    This is the common law of life.

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  9. 7. True Joy

    How to live in the present...

    I'll be happy once I've done this certain thing.
    We all say this often, not realizing what it brings.
    We look only to the future for our happiness,
    Letting life slip through our fingers in its fullness.
    Will we really feel complete when the task is done
    or look back and see how we missed so much fun?
    Self consumed so we can't see anything else,
    hurting those we love as well as ourselves.
    So many things around us to be grateful for.
    When seeking for an answer, willingly open the door.
    So often, others see what's in front of our face,
    but we're too blind to look as we're snared in the race.
    What is this life supposed to be about?
    Is it money, fortune, fame, or a big house?
    When speaking to a man on his dying bed,
    none of these answers are what he said.
    Family, love, laughter are what we should seek.
    These are the precious things that keep life from being bleak.

    True Joy

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  10. 8. For Alexis From Your Mama

    Live each day to the fullest.

    Live Life Like It Is My Very Last

    Sitting on the steps, looking across the lake,
    Wondering why life, at times, can seem great.
    But in that second, it took me to just think,
    My life could change, faster than a blink.

    Is this a reason why we should always cherish?
    Not knowing when loved ones may suddenly perish.
    Living every day like it is our very last,
    for our days could be very long or go by very fast

    So I'll cherish and take nothing for granted,
    not say things that shouldn't be chanted.
    If this is the last day I have on this earth,
    I accept my life, for what it's been worth.

    Tomorrow isn't promised to young or old alike,
    Today may be the last day I'm able to hold you tight.
    Don't wait for tomorrow, do it all today,
    If tomorrow never comes, you'll never regret a day.

    Live Life Like It Is My Very Last, For Alexis From Your Mama

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  11. 9. Secrets Under Trees

    Everyone has lies and hurtful secrets they wish to bury, actions they regret and things they want to change. This short poem is about learning to appreciate everything a person has to offer and not just dwelling on their past mistakes.

    Focusing On The Good

    Tiny little secrets
    Get buried in the dirt,
    And if they were dug up,
    Someone would probably get hurt,
    So leave them safely there,
    To rot amongst the leaves,
    Admiring instead,
    The truth in summer's green trees.

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  12. 10. Each Moment Is Precious

    I wrote this poem to express the importance of each moment in life and living it to the fullest.

    Living In The Present Moment

    Live in the moment,
    Just take it all in.
    Pay attention to everything,
    Right there and right then.

    Don't let your mind wander
    To what's coming next.
    Cherish this moment
    And give it your best.

    Don't let tomorrow
    Make you rush through today,
    Or too many great moments
    Will just go to waste.

    And the person you're with,
    In that moment you share,
    Give them all of your focus;
    Be totally there.

    Laugh till it hurts,
    Let the tears drop.
    Fill up each moment
    With all that you've got.

    Don't miss the details;
    The lesson is there.
    Don't get complacent;
    Stay sharp and aware.

    It can take but a moment
    To change your life's path.
    And once it ticks by,
    There is no going back.

    In just 60 seconds,
    You may make a new friend.
    Find your true love,
    Or see a life start or end.

    You become who you are
    In those moments you live.
    And the growth's not in taking
    But in how much you give.

    Life is just moments,
    So precious and few.
    Whether valued or squandered,
    It's all up to you!

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  13. 11. If You Must Go

    These are a few things I have learned from my experiences in life.

    Poem With Words Of Advice

    If you must go, then go for a while
    Remember that first step is a hard traveled mile.

    To learn what lessons life has in store,
    You must be willing to open each door.

    Don't be afraid to experience something new
    For each experience will be a benefit to you.

    Never live your life in the past
    Enjoy every day as if it were your last

    Mistakes you will make along the way
    Learn from them, and you'll be okay

    Set your goals high and strive for them
    As long as you try, you'll never be condemned

    Be kind and respect the people you meet
    For they may be the ones to make life complete

    Be sincere in everything you do
    And treat others as you wish they would you

    Whatever you do, make sure you're content
    For the last thing you want is something to resent

    So if you must go, then go for a while
    And when you return, return with a smile.

    Poem With Words Of Advice, If You Must Go

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  14. 12. Forgiveness Is Divine

    This poem is about people who hold on to grudges and can't forgive and how destructive that is.

    The Power Of Forgiveness

    Some people view forgiveness
    As a virtue for the weak.
    An act of mercy undeserved,
    That serves no useful need.

    They stand firmly in their judgment
    And won't consider a mistake.
    They prefer to hold a senseless grudge
    Than accept amends when made.

    They feel they have some godly right
    To reject and criticize.
    They're possessed by righteous anger,
    And consumed by pointless pride.

    They're focused on how they've been wronged,
    And won't be made the fool again.
    So they feel they must avenge themselves
    By refusing to give in.

    They will sacrifice their family,
    Or forsake a long-time friend.
    Do anything they have to do
    To be the winner in the end.

    Or perhaps it's that they can't resolve
    The depth of all their hurt,
    Caused when someone they've trusted,
    Left them questioning their worth.

    But no matter why the struggle,
    Out of pride or out of fear,
    Not being able to forgive
    Can cause the loss of ones most dear.

    Yes, forgiveness is a virtue,
    They even say it is divine.
    But more than that it sets you free
    From what weighs you down inside.

    The best way to approach this life
    Is to ask forgiveness and to forgive.
    There's a balance to this crazy world,
    So live and just let live.

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  15. 13. Make It Count

    I looked back on some past events in my life, highlighted them, and realized life works in mysterious ways. We should make the best of it.

    Poem About Living In The Moment

    That friend,
    Would you two have had more fun
    If you knew how long he'd be gone?

    That possession,
    Would you have allowed others to borrow
    If you knew you'd lose it tomorrow?

    That stranger,
    Would you have helped to ease his pain
    If you knew you'd meet him again?

    Those kids,
    Would you have held them dear years ago
    If you knew how fast they'd grow?

    That neighbour,
    Would you have tried to say goodbye
    If you knew he was going to die?

    Life is volatile, time is short,
    And better is the smallest deed any day
    Than the greatest intention tucked away.

    Make it count.

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    This is an amazing poem that is so true. Keep it up. There are so many things people don't notice normally.

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  16. 14. A Snowflake Falls

    • By Ruth Adams
    •  Published by Family Friend Poems February 2006

    Nothing is permanent, so let's be present to the good in our lives because it will not last forever.

    Importance Of Staying Connected With Family And Friends

    One night I saw a snowflake fall.
    Past memories it did recall.

    And as the snow fell to the ground,
    So quietly without a sound,

    I watched until a blanket made,
    To glistening white - brown earth did fade.

    An untouched cover until the dawn.
    The sun arose; it was soon gone.

    I thought of friendships in the past.
    Seemed perfect though they did not last.

    And family ties once meant so much,
    Now rarely do we keep in touch.

    So quickly life can take a turn,
    Yet slowly we do seem to learn.

    So many things in life can change
    And suddenly be rearranged.

    In our slumber while we do sleep,
    For granted blessings thought to keep,

    For same as night does turn to morn,
    An untouched blanket can get torn,

    The things that we have overlooked,
    Ignored, rejected or mistook,

    As melted snow does turn to slush,
    Relationships can turn to dust.

    So this year for the holiday,
    Praise God for blessings given today.

    Don't take for granted they'll remain,
    That life forever will be the same.

    Let's be the most that we can be,
    For all our friends and family.

    Unlike the snowflake on the ground,
    Let's keep in touch and stay around.

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    Superb, poetry as its best.

    We should count our blessings one by one,
    Every night and day, lest they be gone.
    Friends and family, hold onto them tight,
    For they may disappear in a...

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  17. 15. As Time Passes

    • By Jenni-fiere M. Bivens
    •  Published by Family Friend Poems February 2006

    Fill in the blank; the life you see could be your own.

    Poem On Time Going By So Fast

    As the seconds pass,
    We look back
    At what our lives have held.

    As the minutes pass,
    We see what fell through the cracks.
    Parts of our lives we withheld.

    As the hours pass,
    We think of what we learned,
    What we have taught,
    What we have forgot.

    As the days pass,
    We wish a lot could be returned.
    We wish we would have never fought
    You hope they forget me not.

    As years pass,
    You stand alone.
    They have all grown,
    Married and gone
    Or on their own.

    As your life passes,
    You stand proud,
    Looking how well they raise their own.
    You did well.
    Live on...

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  18. 16. Time Keeps Marching On

    The poem is about how time passes and what's really important is how we've used that time.

    Reflecting On The Passage Of Time

    Time passes all so quickly,
    Moments melting into years.
    It's true, time waits for no one,
    And the end is always near.

    We live a life so tenuous,
    So easily it's gone.
    And no matter what we each endure,
    Time keeps marching on.

    We take refuge in the moment,
    And we cling to every day.
    We pretend it's all forever,
    Just to keep the end at bay.

    We hearken back to childhood,
    When the world was filled with treasures,
    And our lives and what the future held
    Was beyond what we could measure.

    When our family was our everything,
    There was still no place like home.
    And with our best friends by our sides,
    We came into our own.

    And though we took our private paths,
    We all have kept in mind
    That in life our greatest struggle,
    Is our battle against time.

    Will we get to know what true love is?
    Will we have the things we need?
    Will we conquer all our greatest fears?
    Will we fail or will we succeed?

    And then as we grow older,
    And the future shrinks away,
    Our lives become more memories
    And less about today.

    We share our wisdom and our hope
    With the children in our lives,
    And say good-bye to those we loved,
    Who once stood by our side.

    But there's a peace in growing old,
    As time becomes more dear.
    And who we are and why we're here
    Becomes so crystal clear.

    And we see time is not the enemy,
    But how that time was lived.
    And if we took all that we could,
    Or gave all that we could give.

    For in our final hours,
    As our time begins to wane.
    The goodness that our soul's bestowed,
    Is all that shall remain.

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  19. 17. Keep On Smiling

    • By Alexandra Skiathitis
    •  Published by Family Friend Poems February 2008

    What a smile can do

    If at times you feel you want to cry
    And life seems such a trial,
    Above the clouds there's a bright blue sky,
    So make your tears a smile.

    As you travel on life's way
    With its many ups and downs,
    Remember it's quite true to say
    One smile is worth a dozen frowns.

    Among the world's expensive things,
    A smile is very cheap.
    And when you give a smile away,
    You get one back to keep.

    Happiness comes at times to all,
    But sadness comes unbidden,
    And sometimes a few tears must fall
    Among the laughter hidden.

    So when friends have sadness on their face
    And troubles round them piled,
    The world will seem a better place
    And all because you smiled.

    Keep On Smiling

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  20. 18. Wisdom's Woods many personal scenarios to pull from to introduce this...

    Learn From Everything That Happens

    For every time I've failed,
    For every time I've screwed up,
    For every time I've said, "I'm Sorry,"
    And for every time I've not.

    For every heart I've broken,
    For every stone unturned,
    For every one I've damaged
    Due to an action or spoken word.

    No, I'm not a loser.
    I know I am no failure.
    Some things take longer to learn.
    In the end, I'll have things mastered.

    Regret? I've had aplenty.
    Self-loathing? I've lived that, too.
    Walked away too many times,
    Stepping closer to something new.

    I know where I'm going.
    I'm taking longer than I should,
    But these setbacks are not failures,
    Only detours through Wisdom's Woods.

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  21. 19. Lessons For Living

    Having been a Camp Fire and Cub Scout leader, I saw early on how easily young children were influenced by what they were exposed to from the beginning. I watched those same children grow to adults and the results of their childhood training. I hope the parents that might read this poem will give it some thought.

    Teaching Our Children

    I see you looking at your children,
    Wondering what their lives will be.
    If you verify some answers
    Then their future you might see.

    Have you taught them to be truthful?
    Have you taught them to be kind?
    Have you given them the wisdom
    Needed to be color blind?

    Have you taught them to be caring
    For those handicapped some way?
    Do you read to them at bedtime?
    Have you taught them how to pray?

    Have you taken time to tell them
    What a miracle life is?
    How to be aware of nature,
    Share the beauty that it gives?

    Have you taught them how important
    It is to have respect for one another?
    To be grateful, not be prideful
    When good fortune you discover?

    Do you let them know you love them
    In a way that leaves no doubt,
    So they know that is one thing
    That they will never be without?

    We like to think we've done our best.
    Sometimes that's very true.
    Can you say 'yes' to all my questions?
    I will leave that up to you.

    I hope your answer is affirmative,
    For then I know that you will see
    A future filled with happiness
    Like it's supposed to be.

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  22. 20. Lessons

    • By Jeremiah E. Fanjul
    •  Published by Family Friend Poems January 2017

    I'm 22 years old. I recently lost my job, my girlfriend, and lately my will to keep going. I write to reflect and just give myself hope. My poem isn't long, but it has meaning.

    Everyone Has Lessons To Learn

    There's beauty in struggle,
    There's feeling in pain.
    For every painstaking mistake,
    There are lessons you can name.

    No one is excluded
    From life's many trials,
    Not even a scrape on the knee
    From an innocent child.

    It's true, most lessons do hurt.
    Some more than others,
    Some short and temporary,
    Some smothering with suffering.

    Some beautiful with love,
    Like a baby and mother.
    Some are a constant battle,
    Like sister and brother.

    There are lessons we must learn
    About how to love one another.

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