Aging Poem

Moving Into A Nursing Home

So many of us know the sadness of putting a loved one into a nursing home. Initially we may see them struggle to fit in.

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Cynthia, Thank you for your kind words - it means a lot to me as I love the way you write. Very best wishes, Ann

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She Tried To Fit In

Ann D. Stevenson © more by Ann D. Stevenson

Published by Family Friend Poems September 8, 2024 with permission of the Author.

To find room
for her flannel nighties,
a well-worn woollen dressing gown,
her furry slippers
and a few day clothes too.

A much loved book by Agatha Christie,
only one, although
she owned a whole collection,
and a china duck, small, lifelike,
from another collection.

Three photos,
the son who was lost at sea,
her daughter carried away by cancer
and a small picture of her husband
to put beside her single bed.

She brought memories,
muddled up memories,
memories of old songs
she loved to sing,
but sometimes she didn't want to join in.

Sometimes she didn't want to get up,
to be washed, to be dressed,
to mix with others,
sometimes she wanted to go home,
back where she belonged.

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ABOUT THE POET:

Ann D. Stevenson only began writing after she retired, when she joined a Writing for Well-Being course. It was during a difficult time, as her husband had recently been diagnosed with terminal cancer. She found writing very therapeutic, more especially poetry. It was a real boost to her morale when Family Friend Poems began publishing her...

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Cynthia,

Thank you for your kind words - it means a lot to me as I love the way you write.

Very best wishes,
Ann

This is so poignant, Ann. We moved my father into a nursing home a few years ago so this really resonated with me, especially the last stanza. Best wishes, Cynthia

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